Male Chastity: A Path to a Better FLR?

Male chastity is an interesting topic. If you are in a female led relationship you may want to try adding male chastity to your adventures as a couple. The idea behind is simple, you lock the cock (if using a cage) and do not allow him to orgasm. Male chastity in relationships is basically orgasm denial with hardware (the cock cage) for the male. The penis is locked in a cage and thus not able to have an erection or ejaculation. It can be frustrating for the male and often pleasing for the female. Does this behavior lead to a better FLR? Only you and your partner will know that for sure if you re willing to try it.

Benefits of Male Chastity

Increased arousal for the male

More energy for him

More confidence for both

More orgasms for the woman

Less stress for the woman

The benefits of male chastity are numerous and vary from couple to couple. Chastity will certainly add spice and entertainment to your relationship. For a male the idea of having his penis locked is both a hot and hostile concept. Something has to give, once the lock goes on, things change. Many women who are not into male chastity become suddenly converted fans once the cock is locked. As my wife says, “all is now right in the world”. When you hold the key, you hold a lot.

Confidence grows for both partners. The male grows in confidence of his ability to deal with being locked and the female gains confidence in being in charge. Also, the sexual energy is directed to the woman and other tasks as well. This may often lead to longer and better sex as a couple. Yes, it is counter intuitive, you can have amazing sex without a penis. As I have said many times, men are built for arousal and woman for pleasure, male chastity makes it a reality.

Getting Started

Like anything, how do you get started? Like always, it comes back to communication. This is something you to approach as a couple. You can certainly do your research on your own and then introduce what you have learned and more importantly WHY you want to try it.

The benefits are real. Once again, this is something that is n to the norm. It may takes months for your partner to be okay with idea before trying it. Or they may trust you and want to jump in. When you have your why, share it with your partner. No one knows the response you will get, however, if you are coming from a loving and sincere place that will go along way in allowing your partner to hear your ideas.

What To Expect

Male chastity is a mind bender to me. You take the penis and lock it up denying yourself the one thing you want to do, orgasm. This is now not allowed. What to expect as a male- frustration, uncertainty, joy, humility, confusion, arousal, and energy to name a few things. As a female- you can expect more attention from him expressed in many different emotions. You may also feel some confusion yourself and possibly initial uneasiness in receiving orgasm while he has none. Most women get over this rather quickly. As I said before, female adoption of male chastity seems to happen quickly.

Physically, the male will need to adjust to the device (if you re using a cage or belt). The ones who take the time and research the devices and triple check measurements set themselves up for success. An uncomfortable device will be problematic. A properly sized device will lessen the adjustment period and be comfortable to wear. One of the biggest challenges is sleeping at night as lying on your stomach is uncomfortable.

The one thing you can expect is uncertainty. Male chastity will be a unique experience for each person and couple. It is not something to do alone. Communicate your desires with your partner and go at together. That is how you set each other up for success. If you need more information, keep researching until you reach the point when you are ready.

Lastly, know your reasons for wanting to do this. Is it for health, excitement, kink, better intimacy, etc. Knowing your “why” tends to move you towards the “how”. As always be safe, be loving, and enjoy the journey.