Going the Distance
One of the best things about FLR is that it puts the woman’s pleasure first. We all know that men are wired to finish and finish quickly. A chastity cage helps deal with this situation. For those who enjoy the real thing, that is- real penis penetration, FLR sex can be extended using desensitizing cream on the penis. That is correct. They make creams that will desensitize the penis. You can have a much longer love making session with penetration.
Are the Creams Safe To Use?
A great concern is of course, is the cream safe to use? We know that some sex toys are made with toxic chemicals and can have adverse effects on people. How about the creams? You need to read the labels of course, and do a little research to know what is what. In general, lidocaine and benzocaine are the main two numbing agents commonly used in “stay erect” creams. The products can be a cream or a spray and are topically applied.
Each person has certain sensitivities so one person may have no issues while someone else may have an issue such as a skin irritation. When these are topically applied at the right dosages studies reveal they are generally safe. As always, misusing a product can cause issues. As always consult a doctor if you have any questions about using a new product on your body.
Extending Her Pleasure
The trick with creams or sprays are pretty simple. You will want to apply before the insertion to allow the creams dry on the skin. A good rule of thumb is to wait anywhere from 5-20 minutes after application before penetration with your partner as you do not want the product to numb your partner. It is best to apply during foreplay and allow it to dry. Then it is time to have some fun.
Penetration without a male climax can certainly change the dynamic of the relationship. Sex focused on the female tends to create more intense orgasms for her. If she likes real thing,natural penis penetration, using these creams or sprays maybe a win-win situation. It’s a win for her because sex can continue much longer and it’s a win for him because he can focus on her pleasure without the urge to finish quickly.
This is another way to empower the female while still keeping sex in a traditional format. If you are involved with male chastity in your relationship this is an alternative to using sex toys. In the end, female led relationships are about empowering the female and focusing on her needs. Using desensitizing creams can be another way to focus on her sexual pleasure. It is fun to try new things and be open to new ideas.