What is the Chastity Advantage
My new book discusses male chastity and the benefits of giving it a go. The chastity advantage can only be experienced by doing the thing itself. The benefits vary and can be generalized as more energy, more arousal, and more attention to the female. It creates a win/win scenario for the couple for many reasons. The male chastity advantage is a journey of discovery and the benefits are experienced by locking up the penis together.
Advantages for the Woman
I have heard it said the benefits are so many for the woman it is impossible to list out. While that may be an over-dramatization, it speaks to the power (perceived only) the penis brings into a relationship. Handing the woman the key to a locked penis neutralizes this perceived power. The female now has control over the penis. This brings a sense of relief to the woman. Her partner’s sexual release is now at her discretion.
The advantages don’t stop there. Besides the relief of knowing the penis is safely out of the way, the sexual focus is on her. This alone is be a big shift in the relationship and a healthy one. Female orgasms can be a mystery. 18% of females orgasm by penetration alone, thus requiring other stimulation to her nether region to reach orgasm. In juxtaposition with the male orgasm, the penis is looking for penetration to stimulate ejaculation. This scenario is not always in harmony, while the male can get off through penetration, many females do not. Chastity changes this scenario.
Locked-up, the male now will focus his attention on pleasing his partner. Together, they discover new ways to please her. For a female this should translate into multiple orgasm scenarios. It is an invitation for discovery as the female shows her partner new ways to pleasure her. Besides the fun in the bedroom, the locked male will be more attentive and focused on her needs overall.
Advantages for the Male
Locking the penis may be a hostile concept for many men at first glance. If you step back and ask the question, what do men really want? Men want success; they want to make a difference and they want to be loved. Chastity is a path for that attainment. One of the biggest advantages is more energy. Male sexual energy is directly linked to a male’s own vitality. With vitality comes the ability to accomplish things. Whether it is starting power or finishing power, chastity gives you the advantage to get it done.
Mental powers are also enhanced by semen retention. Using sexual transmutation or enhanced vitality, the benefits are astounding. Energy releases through male orgasm. Keeping that energy in the body, it unleashed in other avenues. Furthermore, being locked in a loving relationship with a focus on the female keeps the male highly aroused, supercharging this energy.
While this may translate into periods of frustration, a highly aroused male will be active and use his energy. It is almost like they cannot stop being active if they wanted to, their veins are coursing with raw masculine energy. It is a feeling worth experiencing as a male and one to observe as a female.
The Ultimate Gift
If male chastity is one thing, it is a gift. While it may start out as a kink or fantasy, the ability to give up control of something as precious as an orgasm is a gift. Chastity works best when it is freely given by the male and graciously received by the female. The trick is getting everyone on the same page. While it is a gift, it may not be perceived as one at first. This is a topic that is not common place. It takes a period of learning and researching to fully understand chastity and the various benefits it creates. If you are already in a female led relationship than this can make it easier to transition into.
My book goes into all the details on bringing it into reality in a relationship. It is a fun journey and one worth looking into. Chastity is something that is usually introduced by the male to their partner and responded with a raised eyebrow expression. The penis is complex and asking someone to lock it up will no doubt surprise them and promote curiosity too. The good news is if you can get to the starting line and lock it up, women tend to come around quickly to this idea. It is often stated as “his idea becomes her fantasy”.
Chastity is something to consider if you are looking for ways to increase your energy as a male, discover a more interesting sex life with a female focus, and ultimately dive deeper in your connection as a couple. Few things offer this much benefit with the added bonus of kinkiness and excitement. This blog has only scratched the surface of what is possible through the Male Chastity Advantage.